They will be the ones that if there is something wrong you will have a 100% chance of winning should the child be in danger in their opinion. Ok look thats offensive to the dads that are in there kids lives. Because of this delay in him getting surgery he may have permanent nerve damage, we will not know until after surgery. Can i file abandonment on him for leaving a 7 yr olfd in texas and her mom is in jail for kidnapping her. My husbands ex-wife, is refusing to let him see his kids. We have a 3 years old son. I have filed child abandonment papers against her and allot of other papers and she is using an attorney that she has been to court against .ANY ADVICE WOULD HELP. Is this considered custodial interference even though a court ordered custody order is not in place under tn law? We are still legally married and have no custody agreement. If not, will the other parent keep the appointment? she doesnt then THAT is whats ridiculous. Hi, heres my situation I am the step mother to a wonderful 11 yeat old boy. Thanks. I am a father that has raised my two daughters for the last 10 years. Steph, I know this is a 4 year old comment, but in case you havent gotten help yet: he needs to petition the court for custodial interference and failure to adhere to the court order. This is just an example of the way we have been treated. Are you married? She never answers the phone and has continually interfered with his visitations. I have learned how corrupt the system is. As a consequence, since we had no written- text of permission to let our grandson go, we did not release him to him. What are my chances of getting sole physical custody seeing that VA has been our sons home since he was born, he just turned 7. The mother left the state and moved to Texas, taking our daughter and ignoring my visitation schedule. To answer your question in short, yes. 265, 26c (2010). we heard this from a 3rd party source and they refuse to give my brother his child. You may be asked to meet with a trained court staff person who will try to help you and the other parent come to an agreement. I just dont know what to do! He lied . How can the police even issue this kind of petition? Any advice would be very much appreciated. What will happen regarding custody? I have joint residential custody of my son that me and my ex wife agreed to.I was wondering if we have joint custody but my son lives with me can she take him away from me anytime she wants to live with her or would we have to go in front of a judge. We found out about five years later there was a child and the child was already born when the affidavit was signed. Taffy, by supervisor do you mean for supervised visitation? The parent, with custody rights of a kid, is expected to handle many tasks, has specific responsibilities, and the freedom to engage in different activities. Think about how you would use the courts and make sure you have documentation. Will her denying me of this right after she gave me her verbal consent be held against her when we go to our court hearing even though I did not sign the consent papers but both our lawyers were on the call when she gave her verbal agreement? Can he legally move her out of state without my knowledge or change his last name or deny me visitation? Im so sorry that you are going through this and even more so that your kids are. This is very urgent for us considering Christmas is around the corner. My question here though is about something she does every week. O. Sr. suffers greatly knowing that his only son doesnt know how loved and wanted he truly is, and I fear he is on the verge of giving up this fight. now my son as well! She moves 4 hours away (one way). Thank you! He said his girlfriend is a better person because she fixed her daughters rapist breakfastit was from he was a client that is retarded and she still went around him. Ashley Holter, 27, and Nicholis . I told him to take me to court that I do not care and I have no worries for I have sole custody of my first son and I do not let the father see him for he is Antisocial personality disorder and in prison. At this time your best recourse is to file for contempt, but if there is slander, which is written there is a great chance you can win on that but that is your best hope. my 18 year old son asked the boyfriend if he had enough money to drive to washington. Have you not gone somewhere and not had the medicine and had to skip a dose or two? At the courthouse they will have a form for her to fill out on domestic violence and child endangerment, each state calls it something different. She took him for the first time yesterday and says shes taking him at her alloted time Monday. eyes and picture ourselves as children and then we had to hug our child selves My husband left me and my kids. Does that constitute as my childs welfare and I can make a decision concerning it? This time, my Daughter dropped my grandaughter off Friday evening(he gets her from 6pm Friday to 6pm Saturday). My problem is he wants to take him out of state for a week before Christmas and has promised (via text) that he would have him back by Christmas Eve. I agree with the other poster that you need to file for a divorce and then get the parenting plan in place. The longer you let things ride, the worse they are in your favor and your childrens favor. this is court ordered wit child support. All I can say is persist with the courts, learn as much as you can and get an attorney who can fight for you. He is congested and has a nasty cough every weekend he comes over, and Im really afraid for his health while in that house. I live in Idaho and she is her for the summer. We moved from north carolina but i am from maryland and he is from alabama. Finally one day she told me she was being kicked out due to accusations of drug use/sales. When my son went to jail myself and my husband helped with the kids til the courts granted the mother custody. Then I had to deploy, However when I return from a deployment I found that he had left our child with his parents. or do we contact a lawyer first? Good luck! I took them up there from texas to see him and his family and left my son to visit with his father for a couple of weeks and my son asked to stay until his birthday which I agreed and now his father is saying he isnt bringing him back like agreed upon knowing that he isnt going to bring him back can I file kidnapping charges now or do I have to wait? If u have a court order signed by the judge you need to request the police department enforce the parental kidnap prevention act ,a.k.a. and also wouldnt that make them FELONY CHARGES FOR A SECOND OFFENSE IF FOUND GUILTY? Im sorry D Bean, our justice system and especially the family court system is corrupt.. My ex and I have a custody and visitation order in NYS. Check the laws out you go dad fight for you kids their worth every penny. MGL c.208, 28 Care, custody and maintenanceMGL c.208, 28A Temporary careMGL c.208, 29Minor children, foreign divorcesMGL c.208, 30Removal of child from stateMGL c.208, 31Shared custodyMGL c.208, 31AConsideration of abuseMGL c.208, 32Bringing child before courtMGL c.209, 38Visitation and custody orders; consideration of abuse toward parent or child; best interest of childMGL c.209BUniform Child Custody Jurisdiction ActMGL c.209C, 10Award of custody; criteria. For example: Dear Parent, I have lost my job. Help with finding a way to change the court order. The non-custodial parent refused to attend the sessions and threatened the Social Worker with legal action if she proceeded to treat his child without his permission. Especially, her being away for a week, I feel it is important for her to at least hear me say good morning sunshine and night night sweetheart. She is filing for divorce in Tacoma And they can not conduct a hearing without notifying both parties. In some of my conversations with my kids, they have told me that there are no bedrooms in the house that they all sleep in the same room together. Since last year i have completed a 6 month treatment I am currently in couseling and i have maintained sobriety after treatment for the last 6 months. Im so very sorry,and this is just yet another example of the system failing you.You just keep on fighting,I was told,get as many police reports as possible,your child could be appointed a lawyer and heard in court.My son is only 9 years ols and thats my next step.I sympathize with you,and I understand how horrible it is worrying for your childs safety..Please just dont ever give up! I made sure and advised our child sorta what was going on obviosuly not everything but she knows mommy cant pick her up and daddys is supposed to bring her back and if he doesnt right away dont worry she will be coming home. They put an armband on the child that matches up with you and the child cannot leave unless you are with them. If this is not possible then your recourse is court. If she gets annoyed or can push the right buttons to start an argument she will and has rescind the visit for that dayridiculous. who think that they are above the law. The commisioner we asked for help is the one who signed the warrant. Your son should seek an order from the court immediately which prohibits any registered sex offender, namely the person in question, from being present during any visitations. I want to go back to maryland whrre i will have a support network to help the kids and i. We live in two separate cities less than a 100 miles apart from each other. therapy either because of whatever reason. The father falsified a restraining order and after I was off of probation from falsified charges from the girlfriend, I took the kids and went back home to NM. It is very possible that he never wanted you to move so far away and it sounds like he was in the military at the time and really could not say or do much about it because of his military commitment. Charges from 3 different people. 0640.31 Custodial Interference. Should I be worried? He still refuses. Call the police and tell them you want to press criminal charges for interference with custody by showing them the Order. The State Police admitted she was committing a felony, but there was nothing they could do about it. The last time I saw my oldest daughter it was for her 14th birthday and I had to go to my mothers house, who my ex claimed as a suitable supervisor, to see her. Its frustrating because I would never put my kids in harms way. His daughter needs to be in school, not to mention the mother is mentally unstable and she does not have a place to live. If the child is currently not in the home or the state and can Arizona have our daughter extradited back this during her summer vacation with her grandparents because of the alleged allegations that were reported to CPS, And if CPS has been contacted here in the state of Arizona for alleged allegations regarding our daughter can I have my daughter stay with her grandparents out of state light can I somehow release or relinquish temporary parental custody to them without going through CPS like if I printed something else and got it notarized and then next time CPS comes to visit me tries to and if CPS offend contacted here in the state of Arizona for a ledge delegation regarding our daughter can I have my daughter stay with her grandparents out of state in Texas like can I somehow release relinquish temporary parental custody to them without going I have given up my parental rights temporarily to her grandparents who are now residing in Texas can I do that legally and what can CPS do if anything at that point, Hi, I am a woman who has joint custody of my two children. Our legal aid does not help in divorce or child custody cases. The Courts are becoming aware of the monsters theyve created by giving the court-ordered mothers all the power their first assumption that they would do what is right has failed. Listen to your child and see if the complaint is truly valid or if it is just that they are bucking the system. Best of luck. 2 which have been counties away. In hundreds of cases I surveyedmost of the time the child ends up hating the custodial parent and then has deep psychological issues to deal with. What if anything can be done to make the mother comply with said order in Colorado? I commend you for driving both ways to NY allow him a week of time and for offering to meet him halfway in VA. GUESS WHATSO IS A FREAKING FATHER AND CHILDS BOND!!! My ex and I have joint custody with me being primary residential custodian. I have a standard visitation order of every other weekend and 3 hrs on wed on the off weeks. 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